The consequences of being out of Alignment
When you delay stepping into your power, this is what happens.
We’re all on a spiritual journey, right? We have soul families we reincarnate into and karmic relationships that need to happen to dismantle our Narratives & Belief Systems, we have traumas we need to experience to jumpstart our divine journey. This reality applies to all of us who have chosen to come to Earth, especially during this time that we’re in.
Much of this happens without our control and it’s up to us to figure out how to transmute the lesson into a teachable experience; otherwise, it’s nearly guaranteed that we’re going to stay stuck.
In our lifetimes, there are major life events that change the course of our journey, from deaths and births to world events and it’s on us to not fall into victim mentality, which is the most toxic form of the Divine Feminine. Instead, it’s on us to take the experience and alchemize it into healing and gratitude. But what if we can’t? What if we don’t want to look at the shadow side of ourselves and instead fetishize our traumas to make it a core identifier?
That’s when Spirit Guides/ the Universe steps in with consequences - and it hurts. Because when we stay “stuck” and don’t evolve, we lose out on opportunity to grow and help others navigate the same trauma. Worst case scenario, we have to repeat the cycle in the next life, but from the opposite perspective, until we get it right. Let me break it down.
Many of my clients come to me, saying something feels “off” and they can’t connect with themselves or they feel blocked. I know immediately it’s because they’re out of alignment. I wanted to put this article together in the event that someone reading it will recognize where they themselves are at and maybe take a curious, nonjudgemental step forward to adjust things.
There are two scenarios where Spirit Guides come in and give you a spanking to put you back on track.
1.) When you’re stubborn in your healing. (This happens when you refuse to look at a Core Wound)
This can sometimes feel like Divine Punishment, like it’s coming from outside of you. You’re ignoring your intuition, drifting off course, isolating yourself, making choices that don’t match your Purpose or you’re just being a stubborn asshole to others around you. Here’s what happens.
You miss opportunities by what seems like a fraction.
You watch those opportunities go to other people around you ie. a job, relationship, or business opportunity.
Imposter syndrome takes over.
Delays in good things coming through to you.
You feel stuck. It’s like, no matter how hard you try, you can’t move forward.
You feel confused when you need to make a decision.
You repeat smaller cycles In your life ie. you get ghosted in relationships, always short on money, you get ignored or overlooked.
Every friend or lover walks out of your life all of the sudden.
You seek out lower vibrational Interactions with people.
You feel constricted or limited in literally everything you do. One shortcoming affects everything else in your life, like dominoes.
The same archetype of person is presented to you with the same life lesson on repeat and you feel trapped in a toxic pattern.
Your life feels claustrophobic.
Your health tanks with a number of inexplicable issues that doctors can’t seem to pinpoint. (for this, read The Body Keeps the Score)
Here’s the good news - these are all lower level consequences of your stubbornness. Universe Is making you feel the most uncomfortable you’ve ever been, to show you that if you just change ONE THING, you can be back on track. Like, move the First Domino and the rest will fall where they need to/ are predestined to. But it starts with you - that’s where what some folks call “Free Will” comes in. Your Guides are only meant to carry you so much - you yourself have to pick your sorry ass up off the ground and do what you need to do to affect healing and change the paradigm.
Here’s the other scenario:
2.) When you refuse to step Into a Higher Purpose or you use your Power for selfish gain/ manipulation. (This one is meant for my higher level folks ie. Lightworkers, Healers, CEO’s, World Leaders, Teachers, etc.)
You committed to being a Soul that impacts many other Souls in this lifetime, so it’s incredibly important that you figure out your healing right away. You don’t make little mistakes; because your stakes are higher, you commit to big ones. Major mistakes come with big consequences. Your margin for error is a lot smaller than the general population because you need to impact a lot of folks in a short amount of time. A lot of people in this position can sometimes manipulate their power and guess what? When they fuck around and find out, Spirit will dole out the Punishment in big swings. Here’s what this looks like:
You lose something major: an entire business, a marriage, a serious friendship, a family member. Yes, that’s right - Universe will snatch that right up.
You repeat generational traumas and cycles.
Spiritual attacks keep coming your way.
You feel like you’re in energetic torment.
You experience frequent addiction to things that don’t fulfill you.
You feel empty, like nothing can quench your thirst. Money can be in abundance but mean nothing to you.
You’re in heavy karmic loops that impact you AND your family.
You get anal cancer. Actually, just kidding. But ever notice how some really toxic, horrible men throughout history seem to have some problematic issues down yonder? Spirit Guides hit them right in the smacker at their Root Chakra as a solid sign that corresponds to the amount of trauma they inflicted on others.
If any of this resonates with you, it’s time to take a look at where you’re at in your Purpose. If you feel held back or stuck, maybe it’s time for some much-needed therapy or spiritual coaching so you can get another POV of your life from 30,000 feet. Whether you’re at #1 or #2, think of it this way - you’re holding yourself back from experience the unique joy of being you and sharing your Gifts with those around you who literally traveled into your soul circle to experience you.
So - pull it together, Friend. We’re waiting on you to step into alignment and into your power.